She Comes First Summary (P3 C46): Finding Your Style

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Just as no two women respond the same way to the techniques we’ve covered so far, no two men will use them in the same way either.

Ultimately, it’s up to you to discover your own style. That said, the following chapters will give you some foundational routines to get you started.

Before diving into those, here are a few key reminders to keep in mind:

• Build arousal first. Take your time during foreplay to create sexual tension. LINK: She Comes First Summary (P2 C22): Foreplay Terms

• Set up the right position. Before going in for the “first kiss,” make sure you’re both comfortably positioned.

• Focus on stimulation, not penetration. Use gentle, rhythmic tongue strokes.

• Reassure her throughout. Keep the three assurances in mind:

  • You genuinely enjoy going down on her.

  • She has all the time in the world.

  • You love her natural scent and taste.

• Use your fingers wisely. Avoid prodding; instead, apply light fingertip pressure on key areas, like the clitoral cluster.

• Remember the flat, still tongue. Sometimes less movement is more effective. 

• Be confident, not cocky. Keep your approach simple and modest.

• Let her lead the friction. Allow her to move against you to create the sensation she craves.

• Stay steady as orgasm approaches. Maintain persistent clitoral contact, keeping her legs close together while still allowing access.

• Stay calm and focused. Don’t rush—measured attention pays off. 

• Enhance the orgasm. As she climaxes, use light tongue strokes to amplify and extend her contractions.

• Always finish what you start. 

• Don’t stop at orgasm. Remember, her climax isn’t the end—explore “moreplay.”

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