The Art of Seduction Summary (P2 C11): Pay Attention to Detail

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Grand gestures and confessing your love often miss the mark when it comes to seduction. 

Instead, it’s usually better to have multiple smaller signs of affection, such as thoughtful gifts and low-key romantic gestures.

Attention to detail in this way is essential to any seduction.

Seduction is really just distraction, and the best way to distract people is to appeal to as many senses as possible with detail.

Colorful objects, pleasant scents, kind words, delicious foods, etc.

You must be acutely aware of your target’s moods and adapt to them. Approach when the time is right and give distance when they wish to be left alone. 

When the time is right, tailor gifts, outings, clothes, etc. to their tastes.

As children, we all engaged our senses much more. In adulthood, we barely have time to “stop and smell the roses.”

Your aim is to bring your target back to the golden times of childhood. Pay attention to the details and deliberately slow things down.

The more you get them to focus on the little things, the less they will notice your larger plan.

First you must discover your target’s needs, but you must do it in a way that is not too obvious. With this information in hand, you can make the exact right gestures at the exact right time. 

This pleasant attention to detail will make your target dependent on you and ripe for moving the seduction forward.

Any good seduction takes time. Make it into a ritual with kind, personalized gestures tailored to your target.

Whatever you do must be tailored for your target’s tastes. The clothes you wear, the gifts you present, the places you go, etc.

Individualized attention (e.g., you wouldn’t dress like this for anyone else) is extremely seductive.

Avoid declaring your feelings directly. Instead, imply it with your looks and gestures.

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