The Art of Seduction Summary (P2 C20): Mix Pleasure with Pain

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Lure your targets in with pleasure and niceness, then later on in the seduction, change your tune, as if you’re uninterested. 

This will make them insecure and give you room to move. 

Then switch back to kindness and they will desire you even more than before. 

You want to put your target through an emotional roller coaster. Heavy doses of pain followed by intense pleasure. 

Every low you instill makes room for an even greater high. This is what will get your target hooked.

Don’t worry about making people angry. It is a sign that they are emotionally attached to you.

Be indirect with your kindness and harshness. Use indirect digs and compliments.

In general society, almost everyone is more or less nice to one another. It’s how we all get along.

However, this doesn’t work in seduction. It is useful to be nice to first lure your target in, but if you are too nice for too long, it will push your target away.

You must create tension. They must experience lows to appreciate the highs. 

Being afraid of conflict is due to insecurity. Break through that fear and you have the freedom to both create and dispel pain in others, which will increase your seductive powers.

Everyone enjoys a particular type of pain. You need to discover what it is. 

For those that feel they don’t deserve success in life, scold them and subtly point out their inadequacies.

For those that experience modern life as a burden, give them someone (you) to worship. 

For the martyrs, give them a reason to complain.

Inflicting pain as a seductive strategy works best on those that have a relatively easy life. 

If your target has recently experienced hardship or loss, it is best to stick to pleasure. More pain will only drive them farther away.

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