She Comes First Summary (P2 C27): Establishing Rhythm

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Cunnilingus is all about balance and rhythm. The key is knowing when to make contact, when to break contact, and how to build anticipation with your tongue.

Start with this simple sequence:

• Press your flat tongue into her vulva.

• Break contact completely for just a split second.

• Reconnect with a long, slow lick from top to bottom (think of it like a “first kiss”).

• Rest your flat tongue back on her vulva.

This pattern of breaking and making contact creates sexual tension and sets the stage for orgasm.

Rhythm example:

• Long, slow lick → Flat, still tongue

• Long, slow lick → Flat, still tongue

Each cycle should last about 10 seconds (5 seconds licking, 5 seconds resting). Continue for about 3 minutes (15–20 cycles).

Pro tip: Use your hand to gently press against her mons pubis as you lick to increase pressure and sensation.

Once you’ve established rhythm, start introducing variation:

• Try small halfway licks (bottom to mid-vagina), deliberately avoiding the clitoral head.

• Focus on stimulating the inner labia.

• Alternate between light, teasing licks that just graze her, and deeper halfway licks that build suspense.

This keeps her aroused without overwhelming her too soon.

Think of the classic poetic rhythm: da-dum, da-dum, da-dum.

Use this tempo on her clitoris. The steady rhythm will tease the head out toward you, inviting deeper contact

When the clitoral head reveals itself, press the soft tip of your tongue directly onto it.

Bathe it fully for about five seconds, keeping your touch soft yet consistent.

Now return to halfway licks:

1. Start with a set of five.

2. Then, bathe the head again.

3. With each new set, increase the number of halfway licks by one, until you reach ten.

This back-and-forth of teasing and rewarding creates irresistible momentum.

1. Begin with 15–20 full strokes: lick from entrance to clitoris, then rest your tongue flat on her vulva.

2. Move into halfway licks, focusing on the labia and avoiding the clitoral head.

3. On the sixth stroke, finish it fully and softly press your tongue into the head.

4. Repeat the sequence, increasing halfway licks by one each time until you reach ten.

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