She Comes First Summary: Introduction

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This post is a She Comes First summary. Specifically, it is a summary of the Introduction: Confessions of a Premature Ejaculator.

She Comes First was written by Ian Kerner. This chapter summary was written by Sam Fury.

Most women love receiving oral sex—so give it to them until they’ve climaxed at least once.

That doesn’t mean you have to miss out on the fun. Intercourse is still on the menu—just delay it a little.

In fact, holding off on your own gratification often leads to a more intense orgasm for you, too. 

Contents

Layout

This book is for anyone who wants to learn how to give women incredible orgasms with their tongue. It is split into three parts. 

Part 1, The Elements of Sexual Style, will introduce you to a new way of approaching sex.

Part 2, Rules of Usage, gives you the techniques and process for performing incredible cunnilingus. It tells you what to do and when to do it.

Part 3, Putting It Together, lays out clear routines for successful cunnilingus.

Basic Rules

Appreciate the irony: When it comes to human sexuality, there’s a lot of it.

The clitoris is not a single object: It has eighteen parts and more than twice the number of nerve endings as a penis. Also, it’s the only part of the human body with no known other purpose than pleasure.

The tongue is mightier than the sword: You have a far greater chance of bringing a woman to orgasm with your tongue than with your penis. 

Learn from your mistakes: The most common complaints women have about oral sex? It’s too rough, too fast, too slow, off-target, or the rhythm changes at the worst time. 

Every woman is different: Pay attention. Ask her what she likes, and listen to her verbal and non-verbal cues.

Be Present

This book shares plenty of techniques—but great oral sex isn’t just about mechanics. You’ve got to be present and connected.

Use the techniques—but let your connection guide you.

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